Feelings

That should be an easy one. We make choices every single day, according to our preferences. We have a preconception about most things in our life. When you smell something, you can easily decide whether you like the odor or not. When you taste something, it's also easy to determine your opinion about the flavor. Or when you touch an object. It's a piece of cake telling about a material what you feel about it. When you hear a brand new song on the radio. You can tell surely if you like that song, or won't ever like to listen to it. Little decisions make out our days. We don't even stop for long periods to think over each little decisions. Which is totally normal. We don't waste time with unimportant things. Maybe that's because we excatly know that we have to reserve our energies for more serious resolutions. The complicated issues. The ones that you should make with the most determined attitude, but you are influenced by the flood of feelings. So you just roll up your sleeves, grit your teeth and do your best. Easy to read, easy to write, easy to tell, but hard to do. To do it right.

What about those good decisions? How can you make the right resolution? And how can you be sure before you know the consequences?

If you face with the decision of your life, and you feel like it would change your entity, your essential, then it's more important than ever to do your best. You might deliberate your options, and then you miht want to sleep on it. But then, the next day you get more confused. Your asking questions from yourself: "why do I have to be in such situation? Why should I change the way of my life? Was it that bad that I chose to do this?"  And you just seem to forget about the matter. If once you got to that point that you have to change, then it must be because yes, it WAS that bad. And if you hard enough to make that resolution then it won't hurt anymore. The pain and struggle will only be your worst  dream and nothing more. Believe me, human nature is quite sophisticated. And you will only remember the good thing of that period. There may remain dark pieces of memories. But you will be delighted and proud of yourself because you were able to make that resolution. As for me, as far as serious decisions concerned, you always have a preconception as well. If you look deep in yourself you feel what you have to do. How you have to go on. You know excatly even at that point when you realize that you have to decide. You know whether it worth the effort or not. And you are right. Just believe yourself. Dare to believe. You are the only one, of who you can be sure wants the best for you. That sounds silly but it is true. Apart from this, you can rely on other's advices or thoughts. Sometimes its good to listen to a problem from an other point of view, but don't forget that regarding your life, the best decision you can make is relying on yourself!

So what I'm trying to tell is to be contentious, determined. If you've made the resolution, you have to bear the responsibility of it as well.

"Dare to be honest with yourslef or else you can never be really happy. The one whom you should never lie is you! Be though to make it right to make it fine to be able to change. That's what is called an iron will".

Good luck!;)